The Falken Guide – Always a work in progress

I’m Aeryn, a late-40-something student psychologist and 30-year advocate for every point of the GSRD compass. I’m working toward a role in gender care, though where I’ll carve my niche is honestly still a work in progress.

Turns out “a work in progress” is a pretty good metaphor for my life. I hadn’t considered the extent of my own gender diversity until quite recently. I’ve found real confidence and the mythical “gender euphoria” in both boy and girl modes; my mood dictating how I present.

This site is a blog and a resource for anyone questioning themselves, unsure where to start, or just looking for a pair of boots that actually fit. We can muddle along together.

From the Blog

23/03/2026

Hello world!

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The Finds

Good Places

LGBT-friendly businesses, venues and services worth knowing about.

The Fitting Room

Online retailers with inclusive sizing, and honest reviews of what actually fits.

The Admin

Legal rights, name changes, documentation. Lived advice and experience for bureaucratic & medical systems.

Pleasure

Sex, sensuality, toys and everything in between. Honest reviews and advice from the community.

Hearts

Relationships, dating, communication and finding your people.

Support & Crisis Resources

You are not alone. If you, or someone you know, is struggling or in crisis these services are here for you. UK Freephone numbers are listed where possible.
If you are unable to contact these services and are in imminent danger, please call 999 and ask for an ambulance.